Ok, let’s say you survived the first date and you’re intrigued for more. Introducing date #2.
By this point, you’ve (hopefully) gotten a feel of what she likes to do, so think along the lines of something exciting and different. The Valley has plenty to offer when it comes to romantically unique activities.
If you’re the energetic-type, consider showing off your skills ice skating or bowling. Teach her how to hit the ball at a batting cage or hit the links at a driving range. You can also test your gal’s aim—head to the Scottsdale Gun Club shooting range. (This can be a sexy turn-on.) Plus, you can never go wrong taking her out to the ball-game. Buy her a hot dog and beer as you root on the D-Backs—perhaps you’ll have a little luck and make it on the kiss-cam.
If you’re artistic, peruse the Valley’s handful of museums, or check City calendars for art festivals and fairs. Stroll the Scottsdale Art Walk, and if things are going well, toast over a glass of vino.
Determining whether date #2 was a success is simple. Cohen says assess if you both had a good time and enjoyed one another’s company. If the answer is mutually positive, you’ve made it to the third date. Congratulations.
Here’s the deal. Forget the “3-Date Rule.” Yep, sorry guys, if you’re sincerely interested you will wait to get completely frisky. (This does not rule out kissing or heavy petting—you know where I’m going with this. Keep it cool, and keep your clothes on.) That’s because Cohen says the third date is often a crucial stepping-stone, as this is when each party begins to show their true colors.
That first date tension is over, and you’ve let loose on date #2. Now, it’s all about date #3—this can either make or break a potential relationship.
Like date #2, Cohen suggests planning something out-of-the-box, but intimate; for example, boating on Tempe Town Lake. Another idea: cruise the Valley. Yep, a little road-trip (perhaps to Jerome) will give you uninterrupted Q.T. Pack a picnic and stop for a sporadic bite along the way.
Obviously if you’ve read this far, you’re in a good position. Things seem to be going well and there is surely romantic chemistry. Date #4 and beyond is when you truly begin creating special memories. This is also a time for the ladies to spread the love. Yes, she needs to plan some dates as well.
Consider taking afloat in a hot-air balloon, or preparing a home-cooked meal for your newfound honey. (Cooking together is a bonding experience.) Get cozy at a drive-in movie, or get all dolled up for a fancy night out in Old Town. Top the night off on a dance floor—you can’t go wrong giving her a little spin…even the worst of dancers are somewhat sexy.
