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We all know men are from Mars and women are from Venus, but now, one Valley vixen is comparing both sexes to 4-legged animals. 

Yep, according to Leslee Alexander, TRU Match CEO, men are like dogs and women are like elephants.  Intrigued? 

That’s right, the woman behind the most elite Valley matchmaking service just might be onto something interesting…

“Men are like dogs because all they really want is positive reinforcement, a pat on the back, and an occasional treat! Women are like elephants…they NEVER forget, and unfortunately, they continue to bring up the past. Don’t engage in this circus act--just sit back, smile, and know this is one of the many reasons a women can be an endless source of entertainment,” said Alexander.

Beg to differ?

This is just one of the many things you’ll learn if you opt for Leslee’s TRU Match boot-camp.  She, along with other Valley experts, coach, instructs, and shares the deep, dark secrets of dating, helping ladies find love.  Her style is based on educating women about the truth behind themselves and their male counterparts.

“Nowadays, women are taught to be strong and independent, while men are encouraged to act more sensitive so they can relate to women. Unfortunately, if men and women follow these patterns, gals become more masculine, and men become more feminine.”

Granted, I’m all about the woman-hear-me-roar deal--being a strong-willed woman tops my personal list; however, many of us can agree: we’re not quite complete without our manly other-half.

“There is so much pressure on women to be a superwoman, and as a result, they often become controlling in an unattractive way,” said Alexander.

She says guys seek soft, playful, loving…even vulnerable women.  With that being said, of course he’s still looking for confidence and pizzazz; but there must be a solid mixture of wife, mother, and career woman.   (Note: wife first.)

On the flip side, get this.  Alexander explains that men are taught to “think with their heart;” in other words, led to believe women crave a sensitive man.  Yes, we all want someone with depth, but what women truly want is a man who IS a man.  According to Alexander, women love someone dominant, secure, and actually aggressive.  (It’s sexy!)  We have plenty of girlfriends…we don’t need another one. 

“I have seen so many people out of touch with their true masculine and feminine roles, that they were both afraid to make the first move.”

Alexander suggests investing in some love 101, especially if you’re newly entering (or re-entering) the dating world.  (That’s why her boot-camp comes highly recommended.)  However, lucky for us, she’s giving us the scoop on what every woman needs to know about men, and vice-versa.

Here it goes…and just to reiterate, this is per Leslee Alexander.

The top 3 things everywoman should know about a man is: men are simple--they say what they mean and mean what they say (excluding the occasional player); men want a woman who lets them lead; and men want a fun woman—they’re not interested in your resume; they want to feel your heart.

And the top 3 things everyman should know about a woman is: women are complicated because they do not say what they mean; in fact, they often say the complete opposite of what they are feeling but expect you (the man) to “know” what they are (Geez!).  Next, aside from what they say: women want a man to make the first move & pursue them. And finally, women want a man who is confident and makes them feel safe and secure.

And with that, you can hear more from Leslee on a discount.  Today only (10/18/11), opt for the TRU Match mini deal on www.doozyofadeal.com.  It could get you one step closer to saying “I do.”

For more information, visit www.mytrumatch.com.

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